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👋 Welcome to the 145th issue of Open Loops, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.
My name is Reza, and each week I share what I'm reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work .
☁️ On my mind
There is no one at the top who knows.
The CEO is guessing. The expert is guessing. The mentor is guessing. The friend you trust most is guessing. The author of the book you've been waiting to finish is guessing. Every person in the chain you've been waiting for permission from is improvising in exactly the same way you'd be, if you stopped waiting for permission to do it. The only difference between them and you is that they stopped waiting for someone above them to make the call. They learned to make it themselves, knowing they might be wrong, knowing they'd have to make another one tomorrow.
The chain you've been waiting on isn't a chain. There was never a top. It was always just you, at every step, with whatever information you have, choosing whether or not to move.
🔗 5 links
Listening as a spiritual discipline: quiet the mind, open the heart, make your body an ally so you can hear what's underneath the noise. It's the opposite of waiting for someone to tell you what to do.
Care can quietly become control when the mind treats every future scenario as an emergency, and the thing you're trying to protect becomes another way to stay anxious. The protective frame turns into the prison, and what often calls itself discernment is just sophisticated avoidance.
Treat every teacher as one piece of the puzzle, one angle of the truth, and the world re-enchants because you're no longer waiting for someone to be the expert. There's no one at the top, and that's permission to synthesize for yourself rather than a problem to fix.
Authenticity is the willingness to take a short-term social cost for a longer-term truth. Most people don't lack the truth, they lack the willingness to pay for it in the room where it would be easier to say something else.
Confidence isn't about being certain or impressive. It's the capacity to be exactly where you are without needing anything from the person in front of you, without seeking approval, already whole.
💬 One quote
And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
📚 One book
This week's book is The Almanack of Naval Ravikant, by Eric Jorgenson.
This is less of a book and more of a compass. What hit me wasn't the individual ideas. It was the integration: Naval doesn't separate getting rich from getting happy from getting free. They're the same project, built on clear thinking, specific knowledge, long-term games, and an honest relationship with what you actually want.
A few ideas from the book:
No one in the world is going to beat you at being you.
Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want.
If you can't decide, the answer is no.
Retirement is when today is complete in and of itself.
Check out my full bookshelf note on The Almanack of Naval Ravikant.
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❓ One question
What's the last thing you changed your mind about that you haven't said out loud yet?
👋 Till next time
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