👋 Welcome to the 166th issue of Open Loops, a weekly letter on clarity, growth, and building a life that feels like yours.
My name is Reza, and each week I share what I'm reading, building, and working through to help you turn confusion into conviction in life and work.
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You need help, and you know who could give it. You still don't ask, because if they say no, you'll wonder whether you were worth the trouble. That's why the people who need the most help often ask the least.
When postage got cheap in the 1840s, Americans started writing letters and had no idea what to say about themselves. They'd been raised to think that was vanity. So etiquette guides had to tell them that keeping everything to yourself was the selfish choice.
Y Combinator keeps a list of the startups it rejected that went on to do well. One got a C and the note “spam company,” then went public. Now every application gets read by at least two people.
Twenty-nine anxious students wrote down their worries for ten days, then checked what actually happened. On average, 91% of them never came true.
🧵 From Threads this week
💬 One quote
The most dangerous risk of all: the risk of spending your life not doing what you want on the bet you can buy yourself the freedom to do it later.
📚 One book
If there’s one thing you should remember from this book, it’d be:
A job close to your dream can keep you from doing what you actually want. You want to write, so you edit other people's books. You want to build a company, so you advise founders. That's a shadow career: close enough to feel like progress, but you never risk failing at the thing you really want.
Here’s another three:
A plan isn't progress. Amateurs have a million plans, and they all start tomorrow. Shrink your next step until you can do it today. One paragraph, not a chapter outline.
A routine makes starting easier. Same chair, same desk, same hour. Keep the first step simple: sit down, put the phone away, open the file.
If you need likes to keep going, you'll quit. Most weeks of real work get no applause. Count what you control instead, like hours put in or pages written.
→ Read my full bookshelf note on Turning Pro.
❓ One question
What are you still waiting to feel ready for?
Till next time 👋
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